"Not everyone you lose is a loss."
So much truth in this quote. Not every person "deserves" to be
treated as a loss; while it is quite painful to part ways with a lot of people,
it is on the other hand just a blessing, really. It's not necessary that every
person we let go of/who let go of us be the cause for our tears or miseries. A
lot of the time, cutting the chords with some people allow you to grow and
develop; it allows you to become who you truly need to be at the end of your
journey.
Some people you lose, were never even worth the trouble in the first place;
they were not worthy of being part of your journey. So, don't worry if you lose
people here and there, because most of the time it's not even a loss. Most of
the time, losing a person along the way is the only solution to fulfilling your
destiny.
True loss is when you look behind and you wish you were still there; true
loss is when this person is taken from you because that's the way God works.
Nothing else is a loss; everything that happens, happens for a reason; every
person you lose for the right reasons, is a person you were meant to lose. You
might not know it yet, but in the end it will all make sense.
Also, Happy December :D
"It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas" is stuck in my
head-so yeah, it's nearly Christ-freaking-mas, the most wonderful time of the
year! *high*
ZOu x