Good Bye June!

June's over!
It's been terribly LONG.
I never liked June and I am glad it's over =]


I am impatiently looking forward to July ♥
Because of numerous things,
But most importantly because "I have stuck with Harry until the very end!",
YES =]


"All was well" are the last words of Harry Potter,
And I wish I could say the same for the muggle-world!
But hey, it could have been worse,
Winter is [not winter according to the many friends of mine who came for holidays [Belgium is a horrible place, I am telling you 8-)]!] amazing =]
Work is the best thing ever,
And the rest,
Well the rest, I believe, will make much sense in the end!


Because in the end it is always worth it =]


Till then,
Have a LEGENDARY July ♥

Tomorrow is unknown to us!

 “You must give up the life you planned in order to have the life that is waiting for you.”


Because this quote holds a lot of truth,
And has the capacity to describe exactly what many of us go through daily, or sometimes,


The life we planned : Happy,Sunny,Healthy,Wealthy,Lovely, with all the best people out there by our sides and fame probably in some cases.

The life we live : Totally another story.

Why?
Maybe because reality is hard,
Living in a dream might be amazing,
Planning each and every detail of our tomorrow seems exciting,
But it is hardly what happens the next day,
Very often we are unaware of what our tomorrow reserves us,
Despite all our planning and hoping,
A lot of times,
The contrary happens - be it for the best or for the worst!


Sometimes it is important that what we plan does not happen,
Because it helps us change our perspective on Life and other important issues,
And sometimes it is unfair,


Because we work hard to make the perfect tomorrow,
And the next moment we open our eyes,
Reality is a nightmare,
Dreams remain dreams!

Then, there are those who will go to any extent to make their tomorrow look like it appeared in their mind,
Sometimes they overcome their fears and surpass themselves,
And sometimes they make use of hypocrite ways to achieve their goals, hurting people, and forgetting about their own selves,
They become that merciless person who's thirsty for [not blood!] power or fame or happiness,
They become oblivious to the fact that happiness is found not into living for ourselves,
But in sharing the little we have with the many people around us =]


V:"Harry Potter, why do you live?"
H:"Because I have something worth living for!"


Planning our tomorrow is what we want to do,
But very often tomorrow is a different story,
To be able to accept that tomorrow can reserve us anything,
We need to give up on planning,
We need to embrace what has been planned beforehand for us,
We need to believe in the life that is waiting for us,
It is only then, that we can live our every dream,
It is only then, that everything we planned will take place!
Zou x)

Forever is a lie.

"A Best Friend is a myth" ~ME? 

[I don't know if someone else said it before, but yeah, I am!]


Why this thought?
Probably because I have had enough of the BFF BS?
Not that my "BFF" have never been there when I needed them,
Only because "BFF" is just a LIE?
If FOREVER is a lie,
How can a BFF even be real?

As you go down the memory lane,
You realise you've had a lot of people pretending,
Maybe you have been one of them too?
But what picks your attention mostly is the very frequent loss of some one dear? [Friends mostly]


If before you thought it was a childhood friendship that had to end,
During your teenage days you believe you finally found out who your true friends are,
And today, when you stand alone, an adult,
You know friends forever is nothing but a mere title you gave somebody you wanted to be by your side till the end,
And you know today, it is quite impossible for you to accept the fact that, that somebody has been always loyal to you and your sometimes miserable life?


The truth is no one is your friend,
The people you spend time with are just people that you met during a period of your life,
Who were constantly there during that particular time of your life, helping you perhaps,
And when the time for them has come to go,
They will leave without turning back,
Whether it's been ten years or two weeks,
No one is your friend,
The people you meet along the journey of Life are only mere travellers,
Travellers who are trying to find a place in this world too,
Who are going to be there until the next cross-road,
Who are going to leave for their own purposes,


Those travellers were once strangers and shall always remain so,
It does not do to call every new person you meet your BFF,
Because yeah, a BFF is a myth!




At some times of your life, you are going to be a loner,
And perhaps,
These are going to be the best times of your life,
Because it is only then that you are going to understand,
Who's who,
Where you belong,
And what you have to do next!

"It is our choices,that show us who we truly are, far more than our abilities."  ~JKR

Stone-Hearted FTW (H)

You know what they say? Loneliness never killed!


I shall survive too, I guess.
Right now, I feel like I have been left alone, to my sort and without any one to be by my side,
But what can I do?


This is The Life!
We've got to learn to stand up on our own,
Even if it means being ALONE.
When you have been through SO much,
Being alone does not hurt much,
If it gets difficult,
Life shall find some new ways to entertain me =]


It never killed to pretend that all's well,
And to believe that everything will be fine,


People leave,
It's nothing new,
I have learned to get over each and every one of you!
Even if you are my "BFF".

Good Night =]

Life is too short to spend it crying over our miseries!

Hello People =]

I was browsing through my fb, 

And I saw a teacher of mine, from high school,

With a brand new album,

She's suffering from cancer,

And she's probably one of the strongest person I know,

When I was at school,

She used to be one of those people whose class anyone would love,

Because she loved us, and she has an immense love for teaching I suppose,

She is one of the people who for sure left an imprint on me during my school days,

She is one of those people to whom you could listen for hours,

Even if sometimes she was just talking about her life,

I knew she was a strong person,

But now I've actually got the proof,

She has a zeal for living-a zeal I have never seen before in any other person,

She is actually fighting to LIVE,

and that's what makes the whole difference between HER and the people that gives up on themselves as soon as they learn they are suffering from sth as serious as Cancer,

She is a living example I believe of those who strive to reach a goal in life,

She has been facing a lot of other difficulties before,

But she has always been a fighter,

She knows it ain't easy,

But she never stop smiling,

And I believe she is going to come victorious,

Not only because she is a strong person,

But because she loves life,

And she knows that Life is meant to be lived,

No matter what happens,

No matter how many difficulties she has to face,

I Know she is going to rise from every fall and win every fight =]

Today, I went in a random school,

And the educational psychologist guiding me told me things which made me realise how lucky we were tohave been Loreto girls,

She was herself a Tifi Lorette,

And when you go to other schools,

You realise the REAL difference between a Loreto girl/or any other confessional school stud and those kids from random schools,

We grew up in an environment where we were loved,

We were instructed to be adults of tomorrow,

We were educated with care,

We had a culture of our own,

You might criticise/refute this as much as you want,

The truth is that we were brought up in a different and BETTER way ^^
I have friends from like the "Best" schools in the country,

But dude-see the way they behave/think : they are totally stuck up people!

Have a nice evening people,

TL♥

Imaginary Love ♥

P.S: The title has nothing to do with this post,
The title was suggested by someone who thought I was going to write         a post about my secret crush who's obviously so much of an imaginary lover right now.




When you read old messages/msn convos,
You realise that sometimes you say things,
"Jokingly",
And they turn out to be true,


And when this realisation strikes you,
It feels like something very big ended,
It feels like something very bad happened,
It feels like you were the cause of your own misery,


And sometimes you feel like laughing,
Because Fate has put you in such a horrible situation,
That you lost practically everything you ever wished for,


And then sometimes,
There is one last and single tear that falls from your eye,
Why?
Because you realised that it was all meant to happen,
You knew it all along,
You just was never strong enough to accept it,
You saw it before it began, [Yes I stole this line from James♥]
You just never wanted to pay attention to it,


And you realise despite having gone a long way since those days/events,
You can never get over the feeling you felt at that particular moment,
You can never forget,
You can never forgive,


Even if you know you've left that life behind,
Some things/feelings you shall carry with you FOREVER.

I watched BAH[LOL](Bachna Ae Haseeno) today :
Raj FTW (H) ♥ 


I have to go in schools and counsel kids tomorrow :O Tough job =]
Good Night.♥

SweetDreamsGoodNight♥

Time for bed!

It's a cold night=]

In the silence of the night,

It's as if I could hear heartbeats♥

And waves,

Clashing against the rocks,

It's as if I could feel my feet sinking in the moist sand,

It's as if I could feel the warmth of the sun on a cold day,

It's as if I could feel a forgotten kiss against my lips♥

                                                              

When it's time for bed,

Every dream is permitted,

Even the most stupid one,

Even the most exaggerated one,

Even the most unreal one.

When it's time for bed,

I can bring you back into my life,

I can make unwanted people die,

I can erase the time,

I can stop the memories from fading away,

I can change a tear into a smile,

I can make the impossible-possible again =]

When it's time for bed,

The world is mine =]

And I can make it a better one ^^

If only we had the courage to see those dreams during day time,

If only we could turn the impossible into possible during day time,

If only we could make all right,

Dreams would not exist,

Reality would have been more than enough,

But yeah,

Apparently it's very important to dream,

It's time for me to dream =PSweet Dreams People♥

zOu.♥

Wintery =P

  Today was one perfect wintery day =]

Wintery : Word I just invented.

When travelling by the bus,

You tend to have like a LOT of time to yourself,

Wondering,

And when the sky is grey,

The wind is blowing intensely,

The rain is falling and you can see droplets of water on the window,

And some amazing song is playing,

You know it's all about going back..

The journey in a bus sure takes you years back,

Especially when you come across the same sights,

You can smell days of the gone years,

I remember once upon a time,

I went on Anii's roof with Vandish,

And he showed me something amazing,

I should probably have fallen in love with him that day :P

Today when I was going back home from Anii's,

I remembered that day,

And I remembered how beautiful some people can be,

I also remembered that Time is not in our control,

It might seems like yesterday,

But it's just years ago.

Life is pretty funny,

It gives you so little time to live and be happy,

And the rest of your life is spent in remembering the tiny moments you spent smiling.

Someone on my facebook just posted a M.L.K's quote :

‎"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."

And yes, in the end,

We remember only our friends and their silence,

And their betrayal,

And the sound of their footsteps leaving,

The sound we keep waiting for,

In the hope that someday it might be heard again,

Coming back,

Which happens very very very rarely,

Most of the times,

Such friends remain a memory that lives forever in our heart,

But yeah,

It is no reason for us to forget the rest of our world,

Surely sometimes we shall stop and wonder,

Where did it all go,

But we cannot spend a whole life wondering what happened,

Time is running,

We shall run along.

Else,

We'll be left behind and be a memory for the rest of the world!

♥

ZOu

Time to move!

“Transitions in life are usually marked by major events, birthdays, graduations, weddings; but the greater transition often come out of smaller moments, when we stop and look at who we are, because each time we see how far we have come, we also see how far we still have to go. In order to fully transform, we might need to free ourselves of everything we've been holding on to, to send us on our new path, the right one. But if at the end, you find the person you have become is not the person you want to be. You can always turn around and try again. And may be the next time you won’t be so alone when it’s over.." ~G.G

 And maybe transition is only fully marked when we realise the rest of the world is not always going to be who they said they would be,
When we realise nothing happens like in books or movies,
When we realise even the strongest things, fall apart,
When we realise, those who do not look like friends-can sometimes be TRUE to us,
Unlike the rest..


Transition is completed only when we learn that apart from ourselves,
There exist other people around,
There exist people for whom not everything is BRIGHT,
But they still make the effort to be HAPPY for us,
There exist people who needs us more that we need them,
But they are never going to say it because they have learnt the hard way,
That life is not always about ourselves,
It's also about those who have been there for us when we could not stand on our own feet.


Transition is only accomplished when we stop being so dumb,
We start being original  =] (Just saying huh!)
So yeah, transition is only accomplished when we stop giving a damn about petty things,
We grow up and we finally accept that it's not always RAINBOWS AND BUTTERFLIES. [SWBL-M5]
We realise that what we are going through is not the END of the world,
And we are still very much alive,
And it's high time we stop blaming ourselves/others/whoever for what happened,
And we stop hurting people just because we are hurt =]


And if THIS seems impossible,
Then surely, every other things we thought could never happen,
Will surely happen!


Time to go read crap,crappy people wrote!
Good Night =]

If you wanna go.♥

THIS song has been on replay for the last one hour,
Amazing song indeed ♥

We built too much just to stand and watch it fall apart..


Today was my first day as a Psychologist,
It was an amazing day,
And today I am sure I love what I do and I am going to be doing for the rest of my life,

There is nothing more soothing than helping people,
Because too many a time we were left without a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen to us,
What I do is about helping others to have a better life,
It is about changing the world,
And someday I will change every people for the best!


I feel proud of who I am today ♥


You and i know we need to figure this out..


We never figured it out,
We never figured each other out,
It's too late =]


Just go..
Go far away..


You'll never be far though,
Because I still ♥ you.

Move on.Move away. Move out.

Getting over love? DARN,that's hard.


Getting over friendship? There's nothing more hard than this.
It takes ages to build one amazing friendship,
It takes ages to learn who a person is,
It takes ages to discover who is finally your true friend,


But it takes no time to lose em all.


Getting over your best friend?
It can take the life out of you,
Because how can you EVER forget that one person who's been there when the rest was not?
How can you even find someone to take her/his place?
How can you believe in anything else if you lost the thing you believed will last forever?


Maybe we tend to take such relationships for granted?
Maybe we tend to be oblivious to the fact that just as love, friendship too is a brittle relationship?
Or maybe shit happens?


Well, when such things happen,
What we need to do is get a NEW life,
We need to get over the world,
We need to be who we are more than ever,
We need to find new people to be part of our lives,


And if we cannot,
We can just stay on our own,
It is not the end of the world,


Too much experience in that matter --->  Crying over it won't make a difference,
I lost so many people,
So many TRUE people,
People who used to MAKE UP my world,
People for whom I would be ready to give up on anything,
People who shaped who I am TODAY,


But yeah,
When they left,
I cried,
Once, Twice, Blah Blah and Blah : They never came back =]
But I am still here,
I still believe in them as much as I did yesterday,
They are still my best friends,
But I got over them,
Because my life is not about THEM,
It's about ME =]

Each morning you choose to move forward or to simply give up. ~L.S


I Know you will move forward tomorrow morning,
But I also know deep in your heart,
You'll still think you should give up,


Remember that I was once the one waking up and having to choose,
And whenever I had to choose,
I remembered your words and moved forward because I believed nobody can be stronger than you.
If I can move forward without remembering the people of my past even once,
You can too,


Because you shaped who I AM =]


Good Night ^^

WEIRD

Too often I have found myself alone despite being with people I LOVE.
Too often I have heard the people I love laughing,
When I was standing, alone, away, and lost in my own world!


"Maybe it's me, Maybe I am destined to be left alone.." ~P.S.


I gave myself the liberty to think I was weird,
And that I do not belong to this world [I am not a muggle, eh? :P],
I do not belong to these people,
No one will ever understand,
No matter how hard they try,
No matter how convinced they are of themselves that they do know,
WHO I AM.


Somebody once said,
I needed to get out of my world,
I can not,
You get out of mine ^^
I have a world of my own,
No it's not that I am selfish,
It's just that I am not like the rest!
It's just that I am from another world,
I was made up of some other soil,
I was made up of some other dust,
I was made up with a lot of care,
[This made me remember one epic line, "I am made up of SHIT!" ~Somebody, Somewhere!]


I am not like you,
And I will never get out of my world,
I will always be this way,
Deal with it!


And I know exactly what you are going to say when you will read this,
I have heard it too often,
It will take more than just a broken heart and some broken bonds to change the person I am =]


I like to believe I am alone,
I like to believe I am always left on my own,
I like to believe no one gives a damn about me,
I like to believe I am not loved,


But yeah, I know it's not so,


I am weird.
I love who I am.
You should too =P

Happy Happy, Have A Happy Happy Day =]♫

It's a HAPPY day [=
You should be happy too. ^^


"The heart is happiest when it beats for others."

From time to time,
It is important to be happy for others,
It is important to feel happy with the happy people of our lives,
It is important to make people happy,


Happiness is not always about us,
Happiness is also about the people who live for us,
Happiness is also about the people around us,
Happiness is also about the people we cross daily without knowing anything about their lives,


Happiness is a mood, not a destination-said so Julian Baker.♥


I am happy =]
I had an awesome day with awesome people! =]


Good Night People of MY life ♥
ZOu =]
JackSparrowFTW.

TAM!

Hanna :"You don't know the first thing about me."
Caleb :"No, you don't know the first thing about you." ♥


I am so in love with Caleb right now. =]
Last Night something amazing happened ^^
I am officially having a huge crush on somebody-you don't need to know who ^^


Life is plain boring,
June should have been a snowing winter,
I always ask for snow,
Don't ask why,
It makes me a happy woman =P


Last night, I realised I could not write if I was not happy,
Neither can I write when I am not sad,
The gist is that I am not happy and not sad, 
SO, I can not come up with any writing =|


Djamshid [You can stop complaining, I did not say Damn Ree this time ^^] just sent me a great video [=
It makes me happy : Not happy enough for inspiration though,
But it makes me happy because every night when I close my eyes,
I dream of this place,
And every night it's the same story,
I see that face,
And I see mine,
And I see a happy me ^^

I don't know how many seconds are left for my dream to come true,
But I know it ain't too far away,
When this winter will be over-there'll be only one winter left before I can live my dream,
And have a happy life,
With whoever comes in my dreams every night ^^


I watched an amazing movie tonight,
"Zindagi humE tera, aetbaar na raha.." 


Life never gives up on us,
We do,
Because we can never find enough strength and enough reason to get over our pain,
Life never gives up on us,
We do,
Because we do not have the ability to see the light that comes right after the darkness,
We are too plunged into our own miseries,
We are too much into ourselves,
We fail to see that Life offers us more than one chance,
We fail to see that every time something goes wrong,
Something right is being shaped up,


Life never gives up on us,
Rather we give up on Life,
Because we  succumb to our desires,
Because we give in to our weaknesses,
We never stand up to ourselves,
We stand up to the world,
But we can never stand up to ourselves,
And if we could,
It would make a whole lot of difference,
The world would have been a better place to live in!


Good Night People =]
ZOu (=  


P.S. TAM? I don't know (: I love using new words in the wrong contexts.