"A Best Friend is a myth" ~ME?
[I don't know if someone else said it before, but yeah, I am!]
Why this thought?
Probably because I have had enough of the BFF BS?
Not that my "BFF" have never been there when I needed them,
Only because "BFF" is just a LIE?
If FOREVER is a lie,
How can a BFF even be real?
As you go down the memory lane,
You realise you've had a lot of people pretending,
Maybe you have been one of them too?
But what picks your attention mostly is the very frequent loss of some one dear? [Friends mostly]
If before you thought it was a childhood friendship that had to end,
During your teenage days you believe you finally found out who your true friends are,
And today, when you stand alone, an adult,
You know friends forever is nothing but a mere title you gave somebody you wanted to be by your side till the end,
And you know today, it is quite impossible for you to accept the fact that, that somebody has been always loyal to you and your sometimes miserable life?
The truth is no one is your friend,
The people you spend time with are just people that you met during a period of your life,
Who were constantly there during that particular time of your life, helping you perhaps,
And when the time for them has come to go,
They will leave without turning back,
Whether it's been ten years or two weeks,
No one is your friend,
The people you meet along the journey of Life are only mere travellers,
Travellers who are trying to find a place in this world too,
Who are going to be there until the next cross-road,
Who are going to leave for their own purposes,
Those travellers were once strangers and shall always remain so,
It does not do to call every new person you meet your BFF,
Because yeah, a BFF is a myth!
At some times of your life, you are going to be a loner,
And perhaps,
These are going to be the best times of your life,
Because it is only then that you are going to understand,
Who's who,
Where you belong,
And what you have to do next!
"It is our choices,that show us who we truly are, far more than our abilities." ~JKR
3 comments:
I totally agree with this. You've actually said what was on my mind ever since i have understood ways of life. Yes. people come in your life for some purpose. and once done they leave. they'll sometime leave feeling compelled to. and they sometimes leave just because that's what they want. life is a journey. and maybe it's meant to be such. we meet people everyday in our lives. everyday. and sometimes 1 or 2 becomes part of our daily life. and then they leave. they have too,else life wouldn't be called a journey. it would be something else. Maybe sometimes what you call your "BFF" just use you as a means to accomplish something in their life. and then once done,they are done with you.
and it's really great to see you being able to learn from that. i'm not being cynical. just observant.
Anii.
I was about to say roughly the same thing as above, so I'm just gonna say I second the above comment.
There is so much truth in "People always leave" and it is also true that "Sometimes they come back" but it's just not the same. It goes back to when I said that I did not believe in best friends forever, but I believe in true friends...
So many times people claimed that they would be here whenever you needed them, but in the end...you found yourself alone...as said above "once done, they are done with you" ...people are too selfish to care nowadays...
Take care xx
And I agree with both the above comments. Always people go, no matter what they promise.
And BFF is BULLSHIT, yeah =)
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