Circumstances do not always change people.
Most of the time people change people. People can change you-not who you
are-no-no one can do that and you should never allow anyone [no matter how much
they tell you they are changing you for the best] change who you truly
are. People can change the way you
react, the way you behave and the way you should express yourself. Especially
people who are close to you-people who are so close to you that they tend to walk
all over you. Don't get me wrong, it's not a bad thing[not for you atleast],
it's a good thing-because when people "rain over your parade"-it
gives you the chance to realise where you stand and who you should allow into
your most private and intimate thoughts, ideas and dreams. When these types of
people happen to you-you realise you can be a better person, you can be someone
who stands on their own, you can never be told what to do, what to believe in
and what to search for.
These people happen for a reason-to help you understand the world better, to help you realise that [I found that on insta-great stuff] "they wanna see you do good, but never better than them. Remember that." So, if there is someone dictating your life-take a step back and look at your life-being controlled by someone else and realise that this is YOUR LIFE, YOUR DREAMS, YOUR GOALS-not theirs. And only you deserve to walk that path, only you deserve to lead the way-because no one gets you better than you do :)
These people happen for a reason-to help you understand the world better, to help you realise that [I found that on insta-great stuff] "they wanna see you do good, but never better than them. Remember that." So, if there is someone dictating your life-take a step back and look at your life-being controlled by someone else and realise that this is YOUR LIFE, YOUR DREAMS, YOUR GOALS-not theirs. And only you deserve to walk that path, only you deserve to lead the way-because no one gets you better than you do :)
Circumstances do not change people.
People change people.
Happy people makes you happy. Be around happy
people. Be around merry people. And be around people who love
you-unconditionally because they don't have any other choice than loving
you-aka family, the right kind of family, the kind of family who brings out the
best in you, the kind of family who points out the bad in you, the kind of
family who have your back even when you turn your back on them, the kind of
family who will never ever ever give up on you because you are theirs.
It's a wonderful time of the year btw [na, not
Christmas yet], the perfect weather and the perfect life!
Banana =]
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