Saying GoodBye Is Not Always A Choice.

Why is saying Good Bye always so hard?
Do we not trust ourselves?
Do we not trust the bond we share with the person we are saying good bye to?
Why should we say Good Bye so often, at every juncture of life?
Why can't it be See You Later,
Why can't it be We'll Meet Again And Nothing Will Change?

Why is it so painful to part ways with people you've spent so little time with?
Why does it hurt to leave behind moments that meant nothing?

After you've asked yourselves these silly questions, you realise that every single moment you spend with a person,
Be it a meaningless moment,
Or any important one,
Once you leave that person behind and move on in life,
Once you have to part ways with that person,
Once you have to turn the pages in the book of your life,
Every single one of those moments spent together will be missed, will be cherished, will be mourned,
Because this is the reality of Life,

Every time you say goodbye, you lose a bit of yourself,
A bit of yourself that became anchored into the person you are leaving behind,
Every time you move on in life, you lose a part of your story,
Pages from the book of your life is torn, every time you say goodbye,

Sometimes, you take ages to get over people,
Sometimes, you get over pretty quickly,
And sometimes you never do,
You carry memories of those people with you everywhere you go,
You carry those memories in your heart in the hope that one day you will live those moments again,
And perhaps, if you are lucky, you will,
And if you are not, you lose a part of yourself,

Also, ted's line fits in here, so here goes:

"And that's how it goes kids. The friends, neighbors, drinking buddies and partners in crime you love so much when you're young, as the years go by, you just lose touch.
You will be shocked kids when you’ll discover how easy it is in life to part ways with people forever. That’s why, when you find someone you wanna keep around, you do something about it." -Ted Mosby

xoxo
ZOu